Wednesday, December 3, 2008

What do you bring to the dinner table?

Good conversation, your troubles from the day, the remote control to change the channel when your favorite show comes on, a tasty contribution to the meal,... Well, at our dinner table it's a little different.

Reagan brings his current favorite book. Joshua brings his current Lego creation. And, Zoe often brings at least one baby doll.

It hit me tonight as I sat down, looked across the table, and saw Reagan with a book in his lap and Joshua playing with a Lego vehicle of some kind - we often bring what's most important to us to our evening family meal. I hope you sit down to eat with your family on a regular basis. Michael's job allows us to do this most nights, and we count that as a true blessing. But, what do we bring to these priceless family occasions? Tonight my children brought what was near and dear to them. I need to remember to do that myself and bring thoughtful conversation - not thoughtless criticism, spiritual encouragement - not a day's worth of complaints, and ears ready to listen - not a mouth determined to talk only about "grown-up things" after a full day with the children.

Thank you to my children for the visual reminder that we should always bring what's most important with us when we come together as a family! (BTW, they set their toys aside and we had a great meal together!)

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